How matchmaking performs: That it pair is sincere and you will trusting of just one several other

How matchmaking performs: That it pair is sincere and you will trusting of just one several other

It protect for every single someone else treasures dutifully and very carefully, nurturing each other well. INFJs inspire the fresh INTP employing want to do-good and you can their ability to learn conceptual principles. INFJs love the point that INTPs see it really is trying to find understanding and you will hearing him or her, reassuring the INFJ out-of both their value and you will sanity. The pair is quite inside tune together, and they like one another on the an extremely deep level.

INTPs, therefore, like the brand new INFJs intelligence, perceptiveness, and breadth regarding insight, not to mention the love and you can cultivate

Why the partnership may well not exercise: INFJs want to comprehend anyone, together with INTP do not like to track down comprehend. It usually do not feel that there needs to be a desire trailing its methods. They can bother both with ease which have miscommunication when you look at the circumstances.

Simple tips to ensure that is stays: Telecommunications are going to be a difficult task for this couple, but so long as it constantly run it and they are capable keep its pledges, anything commonly disperse effortlessly and you may soundly. The success of confirmed INTP-INFJ combining all hangs largely into the standard of openness and maturity in both someone.

How dating works: Those two is actually electronic together with her! They are both really self-alert and strong, and can see many much time discussions. Both logical and you will careful, capable chat everything you out together and will believe additional that very carefully. They see using top quality time with her, regardless of activity, and tend to be very careful not to trample on a single anothers thinking.

As to why the partnership will most likely not exercise: The newest often user-friendly, extroverted ENTP will get frighten otherwise downright scare brand new often hushed, anxious INFJ. The pair may also have the latest habit of overanalyze each other, and in the place of reading between the contours will simply damage biker planet online you to definitely anothers feelings.

Simple tips to ensure that it it is: The fresh ENTP needs to be really smooth and apprehensive about the fresh new INFJ up to trust was gained for the both concludes of your own contract. They have to just be sure to discuss cautiously and never overanalyze things this new most other that says. If they can do this, its dating is really admirable.

The way the relationship really works: Each other items are nurturing, warm, and you will thoughtful. He has got an intense, severe partnership and certainly will almost always make time for each other. Brand new ENFJs warm, taking characteristics makes it easy into the INFJ in the future away of their cover. Meanwhile, brand new INFJs thinking-knowing characteristics can show an ENFJ when deciding to take time for just themselves. A keen INFJ can really teach a keen ENFJ which these are generally to the.

INTPs like analytical correctness and facts, and then make relationships you to INFJs are spellbound by

As to the reasons the connection may well not exercise: An enthusiastic ENFJ may get disheartened having a keen INFJs quiet nature, and might locate them as cold oftentimes. ENFJs cannot always need as often time for you regenerate as an INFJ, and it can cause them to become end up being unloved otherwise unappreciated. Meanwhile the latest INFJ could feel as though a keen ENFJ was prying, and that means they are getting unwrapped.

Tips keep it: Each other models must be sensitive and painful and you will sexual with the each other in order to get the relationship up and running. ENFJs have to undertake INFJs while they started, and you can INFJs should be diligent having ENFJs. He could be simply interested usually, and you may such fascination is also push its lifetime to-be a fantastic excitement.

The way the relationships performs: ISFJs and you may INFJs is naturally incredibly caring and will need very proper care of 1 other. They both are extremely empathetic, and you may desire work things out into the bad factors. ISFJs and you can INFJs both like to show the like and you may service with the its spouse. INFJs love nothing much better than being appreciated, additionally the ISFJ helps it be identified when an enthusiastic INFJ is actually and work out her or him happier. They will certainly carry out best in an extended-label matchmaking consequently they are will a desire to people which discover them.

Why the partnership may well not work-out: INFJs like to end up being related and interesting, so they really need to prove to its companion that they are interesting compliment of absolutely nothing “tests”. The newest ISFJ, however, probably cannot simply take kind of interest in such as screening. Because they’re one another of course hushed, it do not enjoy deep toward for every single others personalities usually. INFJs might be cold and sometimes getting numb, and that confuses the latest ISFJ and will damage their attitude. The newest ISFJ need regulations and regularly will not take pleasure in new INFJs easy to use nature.

How-to ensure that it it is: The latest ISFJ within this relationship needs to prove how much it love their INFJ. The latest INFJ should be forgiving and open-oriented along with their ISFJ, accepting its differences. This new INFJ need certainly to was the most difficult to not ever getting too stubborn, and define its ideas carefully. Simply because they both grab something extremely truly, they have to end personal insults when attacking and you will think on the word said. With warning, that it pair normally prosper along with her.

இந்நூல் சுயமுன்னேற்ற நூல்களின் வரிசையில் பயனுள்ள, போற்றத்தக்க ஒரு புதுவரவு. பற்றாக்குறையோடு கூடிய அன்றாட வாழ்க்கையான இக்கரை வாழ்க்கையிலிருந்து சிறந்த, அபரிமிதமான அக்கரை வாழ்க்கைக்கு பயணிக்க ஒரு சிறந்த வழிக்காட்டி.

 வாழ்க்கையில் முன்னேற விழையும் எல்லோருடைய வெற்றிக்கும் இந்நூல் ஒரு திறவுகோலாக விளங்கும் என்பது திண்ணம்.
பல்வேறு பணிகளுக்கிடையே மக்களுக்கு, குறிப்பாக இளைஞர்களுக்கு மிகவும் அவசியமான இந்நூலை அழகான, எளிய தமிழ்நடையில் இயற்றி அளித்த ஆசிரியருக்கு பாராட்டுக்கள். அவர் பணி மேலும் சிறக்கட்டும்!

 

Dr.R.S.Raghavan
Dr.R.S.Raghavan

ஒரு நல்ல புத்தகத்தின் அடையாளம் படிக்கத் தொடங்கியவுடன் கீழே வைக்காமல் கடைசிப் பக்கம் வரை படிக்க வைப்பதே. தங்களது “இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?” என்ற புத்தகம் எனக்கு அந்த அனுபவத்தைத் தந்தது. இது மிகவும் அருமையான சுயமுன்னேற்ற வகை புத்தகம்.

தொழில் முறையில் ஆடிட்டராக உள்ள நீங்கள் அருமையாக ஆங்கிலத்தில் எழுத முடியுமென்றாலும், தமிழ் வாசகர்களுக்குப் புதிய சிந்தனைகளைத் தரவேண்டும் என்பதற்காகவே இந்த நூலைத் தமிழில் எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள். அதனால் தமிழ் வாசகர்களின் நன்றிக்குரியவராகிறீர்கள்.

ஒரு வாசகன் என்ற முறையில், உங்களுக்கு என் பாராட்டையும், நன்றியையும் தெரிவித்துக்கொள்கிறேன்.

Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti
Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti(Partner M/S. Nalli Chinnasami Chetty)

திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை தொழில் துறையில் தனக்கென ஓர் இடத்தைப்பெற்றவர். அவரது முயற்சியும் மனித பண்பாடும் அவரை வெற்றியின் உச்சத்தை அடைய உதவியது. முற்போக்கான சிந்தனை, முரண்பாடற்ற நோக்கம், எதிலும் யதார்த்தத்தையும் உண்மையையும் உணரக்கூடிய அறிவு இவைகள் இவரது அடிப்படை ஆற்றல்கள். 

அவரது 40 ஆண்டுகளுக்கும் மேற்பட்ட அனுபவங்களின் தெள்ளிய சாராம்சம்தான் இவரது படைப்பு ‘இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?’

சுவைபட எழுதியிருக்கிறார். அறிவுப்பூர்வமான புத்தகங்களின் நடுவில் இப்புத்தகம் தனித்து மிளிரும் என்பதில் எந்தவித ஐயமும் இல்லை. திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை அவர்களது இம்முயற்சி பாராட்டத்தக்கது. அவர்களுக்கு மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்!

Shri. V.V.Sundaram
Shri. V.V.Sundaram(Cleveland Thyagaraja Festival)