In certain my observations of individuals who was pan sexual aunt otherwise an excellent homosexual

In certain my observations of individuals who was pan sexual aunt otherwise an excellent homosexual

An paulie for example become entirely unsealed so think that there is certainly a great difference in their monogamy and you can non monogamy and if you’re merely because the i would personally become sexually attracted to all kinds of anyone does not always mean i wish to time all of them in one and you will though used to do which is also nobody’s organization in that way anything including right proper after which also it’s not i would assume ivy brand new was she increased to towards the livestream.

It is eg you are not fundamentally drawn to every on the market in the event that you’re straight you are not attracted to anyone of contrary gender. You really have particular anyone Jude’s people you’re not precisely precisely and you will i’m browsing ask you. This question are debatable. However, i was questioned which matter otherwise got that it dialogue which have loved ones. And perhaps they are such as i would never ever dare to inquire of it question. Very i am simply likely to ask once again. Justification my personal ignorance if it comes out of incorrect. You have significantly more of the butch lady earn the female lady plus after you told you in the beginning when you look at the from inside the highschool you’re tracked towards ladies who enjoys quick tresses dressed kind of male.

What can you say to you to observation. Because my personal real question is is that something that is we obviously fall under or is that simply some thing we see a whole lot more away from and you can we’re not viewing more of the most other including exact same gender character lovers. Yeah you understand. I do believe a majority of it might be for example it is socially constructed therefore we was. Our company is accustomed watching specific factors thereby i operate people away. I know made an effort to kind of speak about. I’ll be the major scoop. I’ll unlock the door to you personally and i also. That has been individually. I am not sure in the event that someone else do this. However, we i enjoy strive to dating whatsyourprice combat those individuals gender those individuals norms than just the audience is regularly however, i believe it is because i try resisting because we now have constantly recognized that we’ve been educated you to so that the even more we is brand of complications you to than just more.

Including just what otherwise do we carrying out to fight out of this

We could possibly find items that commonly commonly typical Ammunition forcing members of a box. Even speaking only about upright someone to possess an extra. As i am aware you’re proclaiming that for example people. That are not straighter could developing happens. Perhaps the those who they’ve been trying to comply with. I feel particularly which is currently placing some one box ’cause although you will be a lady you really have a variety of women and you can masculine trains and have now if you are a person i believe and here plenty poisonous maleness comes in that you feel eg reduced than simply otherwise exhibit we’ve been letting you know in the before instance regarding your partner and i also disliked utilizing the word such as for example damn intellect identify psychologically readily available like that’s sort of stop whenever you think about it however, as to why can’t a guy enjoys men and women qualities and i also in person super keen on those people characteristics.

Brand new spots between two people however end up in heterosexual roles

I’m along these lines is one thing who like. Men and women are writing about such. How do we escape these. And you may we are certainly progressing into the european. I believe after all the important thing in my situation merely which have talks such as speak about they talk about even with your spouse for example we have even discussed they with my partner such hi would exactly what when we just do such as for example an enjoyable photo. Take tonight and you will as with any. Don the dresses in mind. That would be fun right. He’s particularly high. Let us get it done. You are aware only have discussions when you look at the not being scared to voice silly here dumb like since if some one can make you then become vulnerable to own asking a concern and you may problematic certain norms than perhaps you must not be together Yeah that is a very good part since the we don’t the greater amount of i identify having you to definitely title the greater i examine to your that container therefore the smaller i explorer everything else.

இந்நூல் சுயமுன்னேற்ற நூல்களின் வரிசையில் பயனுள்ள, போற்றத்தக்க ஒரு புதுவரவு. பற்றாக்குறையோடு கூடிய அன்றாட வாழ்க்கையான இக்கரை வாழ்க்கையிலிருந்து சிறந்த, அபரிமிதமான அக்கரை வாழ்க்கைக்கு பயணிக்க ஒரு சிறந்த வழிக்காட்டி.

 வாழ்க்கையில் முன்னேற விழையும் எல்லோருடைய வெற்றிக்கும் இந்நூல் ஒரு திறவுகோலாக விளங்கும் என்பது திண்ணம்.
பல்வேறு பணிகளுக்கிடையே மக்களுக்கு, குறிப்பாக இளைஞர்களுக்கு மிகவும் அவசியமான இந்நூலை அழகான, எளிய தமிழ்நடையில் இயற்றி அளித்த ஆசிரியருக்கு பாராட்டுக்கள். அவர் பணி மேலும் சிறக்கட்டும்!

 

Dr.R.S.Raghavan
Dr.R.S.Raghavan

ஒரு நல்ல புத்தகத்தின் அடையாளம் படிக்கத் தொடங்கியவுடன் கீழே வைக்காமல் கடைசிப் பக்கம் வரை படிக்க வைப்பதே. தங்களது “இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?” என்ற புத்தகம் எனக்கு அந்த அனுபவத்தைத் தந்தது. இது மிகவும் அருமையான சுயமுன்னேற்ற வகை புத்தகம்.

தொழில் முறையில் ஆடிட்டராக உள்ள நீங்கள் அருமையாக ஆங்கிலத்தில் எழுத முடியுமென்றாலும், தமிழ் வாசகர்களுக்குப் புதிய சிந்தனைகளைத் தரவேண்டும் என்பதற்காகவே இந்த நூலைத் தமிழில் எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள். அதனால் தமிழ் வாசகர்களின் நன்றிக்குரியவராகிறீர்கள்.

ஒரு வாசகன் என்ற முறையில், உங்களுக்கு என் பாராட்டையும், நன்றியையும் தெரிவித்துக்கொள்கிறேன்.

Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti
Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti(Partner M/S. Nalli Chinnasami Chetty)

திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை தொழில் துறையில் தனக்கென ஓர் இடத்தைப்பெற்றவர். அவரது முயற்சியும் மனித பண்பாடும் அவரை வெற்றியின் உச்சத்தை அடைய உதவியது. முற்போக்கான சிந்தனை, முரண்பாடற்ற நோக்கம், எதிலும் யதார்த்தத்தையும் உண்மையையும் உணரக்கூடிய அறிவு இவைகள் இவரது அடிப்படை ஆற்றல்கள். 

அவரது 40 ஆண்டுகளுக்கும் மேற்பட்ட அனுபவங்களின் தெள்ளிய சாராம்சம்தான் இவரது படைப்பு ‘இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?’

சுவைபட எழுதியிருக்கிறார். அறிவுப்பூர்வமான புத்தகங்களின் நடுவில் இப்புத்தகம் தனித்து மிளிரும் என்பதில் எந்தவித ஐயமும் இல்லை. திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை அவர்களது இம்முயற்சி பாராட்டத்தக்கது. அவர்களுக்கு மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்!

Shri. V.V.Sundaram
Shri. V.V.Sundaram(Cleveland Thyagaraja Festival)