It noticed so backhanded, i did not answer anything to their own

It noticed so backhanded, i did not answer anything to their own

So you’re able to better it well cindy delivered a message saying that she try disappointed in the and make myself therefore insecure in the me personally, hence she’d be sure to generate me personally have more confidence, but i ought to n’t have leftover because it was pretty childish and kind out of spoiled the mood.

I just told my hubby he must take care of a radius with cindy

He questioned basically are offering your an ultimatum, we said in the event that he will wade as far as forget and you can disrespect my personal attitude to own cindy? Which extremely rubbed my hubby the wrong method and he told you since i including unpleasant viewpoint in my notice, that’s giving your a keen ultimatum anyways, he then may as well leave since the the guy dont get off which have such as a vulnerable person that features eg disgusting advice regarding your. mujeres bellas The guy packed a bag and leftover to his mom’s put. You will find attempted apologising numerous times, telling exactly how sorry i’m to have everything, however, he is ignoring my personal texts and you will phone calls.

Derek including informed you to cindy keeps usually got difficulties with limitations assuming the guy produced their bf so you can everyone else cindy create rating as well close and you may manage laugh one she was just checking if the he had been really gay

Later on cindy’s cousin texted me personally and you may called myself a number of brands to trust that way on their sibling stating jake is to simply get-off me personally and a gross person anything like me will probably be worth to help you become by yourself. I could not prevent sobbing after that. Idk how-to boost it. Can there be an approach to even return? Is actually we so wrong to help you are entitled to that it? Idk anymore.

Update- Thanks all the having responding and people who provided me with a great strategies inside the individual texts. We didn’t see all of the comments, however now i know my attitude is actually valid and you will boundaries have been entered because of the cindy. Now from inside the restaurants you will find cindy, her sibling shawn along with his gf, in addition to their relative derek (in addition to a buddy regarding my hubby) along with his bf. And so i titled derek and you can inquired about the issue and you can exactly what happened once i leftover. He was sympathetic and you may said that after i left in the beginning they chose to return just after a while but not some thing was indeed really uncomfortable, but when i did not started, shawn’s gf informed cindy that she try very disrespectful for undertaking you to. Derek and his bf along with told you a similar thing. To this cindy come weeping stating it did not have so you can part their particular and attack their more than a unique laugh, one to she don’t know it create rating thus out of control. She up coming kept the space whenever you are whining. Jake didn’t know very well what to say and everybody leftover early the fresh following day.

They were extremely shameful with it too therefore derek experienced their particular, that cindy rolling her sight and you may said they can’t bring a joke and ultimately eliminated. All this work audio therefore strange, idk what’s happening which have cindy. Shawn’s gf along with texted me claiming she is sorry for what took place. I informed your exactly how shawn’s content is actually inappropriate, however, she had no idea towards text message, thus i delivered their a screenshot and you may expected their particular to inform shawn not to ever harass me personally once more. She are very apologetic and said she’d talk to your.

Now my million titled and you may questioned what was going on while the jake don’t tell their own and simply told you we’d an argument, i happened to be some time hesitant to tell however, ultimately told everything. She was crazy within my partner. She said they will be arriving at have a cam. Therefore yeah now i am looking forward to them to are available and you will most worried. Idk when the everything i performed is correct otherwise completely wrong however, i will find. As for individuals claiming my hubby is some pedo or it are having an event, i am aware this is furthest regarding the information. I never requested his motives, exactly what hurt me was the possible lack of respect off cindy towards me personally.

இந்நூல் சுயமுன்னேற்ற நூல்களின் வரிசையில் பயனுள்ள, போற்றத்தக்க ஒரு புதுவரவு. பற்றாக்குறையோடு கூடிய அன்றாட வாழ்க்கையான இக்கரை வாழ்க்கையிலிருந்து சிறந்த, அபரிமிதமான அக்கரை வாழ்க்கைக்கு பயணிக்க ஒரு சிறந்த வழிக்காட்டி.

 வாழ்க்கையில் முன்னேற விழையும் எல்லோருடைய வெற்றிக்கும் இந்நூல் ஒரு திறவுகோலாக விளங்கும் என்பது திண்ணம்.
பல்வேறு பணிகளுக்கிடையே மக்களுக்கு, குறிப்பாக இளைஞர்களுக்கு மிகவும் அவசியமான இந்நூலை அழகான, எளிய தமிழ்நடையில் இயற்றி அளித்த ஆசிரியருக்கு பாராட்டுக்கள். அவர் பணி மேலும் சிறக்கட்டும்!

 

Dr.R.S.Raghavan
Dr.R.S.Raghavan

ஒரு நல்ல புத்தகத்தின் அடையாளம் படிக்கத் தொடங்கியவுடன் கீழே வைக்காமல் கடைசிப் பக்கம் வரை படிக்க வைப்பதே. தங்களது “இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?” என்ற புத்தகம் எனக்கு அந்த அனுபவத்தைத் தந்தது. இது மிகவும் அருமையான சுயமுன்னேற்ற வகை புத்தகம்.

தொழில் முறையில் ஆடிட்டராக உள்ள நீங்கள் அருமையாக ஆங்கிலத்தில் எழுத முடியுமென்றாலும், தமிழ் வாசகர்களுக்குப் புதிய சிந்தனைகளைத் தரவேண்டும் என்பதற்காகவே இந்த நூலைத் தமிழில் எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள். அதனால் தமிழ் வாசகர்களின் நன்றிக்குரியவராகிறீர்கள்.

ஒரு வாசகன் என்ற முறையில், உங்களுக்கு என் பாராட்டையும், நன்றியையும் தெரிவித்துக்கொள்கிறேன்.

Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti
Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti(Partner M/S. Nalli Chinnasami Chetty)

திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை தொழில் துறையில் தனக்கென ஓர் இடத்தைப்பெற்றவர். அவரது முயற்சியும் மனித பண்பாடும் அவரை வெற்றியின் உச்சத்தை அடைய உதவியது. முற்போக்கான சிந்தனை, முரண்பாடற்ற நோக்கம், எதிலும் யதார்த்தத்தையும் உண்மையையும் உணரக்கூடிய அறிவு இவைகள் இவரது அடிப்படை ஆற்றல்கள். 

அவரது 40 ஆண்டுகளுக்கும் மேற்பட்ட அனுபவங்களின் தெள்ளிய சாராம்சம்தான் இவரது படைப்பு ‘இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?’

சுவைபட எழுதியிருக்கிறார். அறிவுப்பூர்வமான புத்தகங்களின் நடுவில் இப்புத்தகம் தனித்து மிளிரும் என்பதில் எந்தவித ஐயமும் இல்லை. திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை அவர்களது இம்முயற்சி பாராட்டத்தக்கது. அவர்களுக்கு மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்!

Shri. V.V.Sundaram
Shri. V.V.Sundaram(Cleveland Thyagaraja Festival)