It’s skeptical when the an associate wants money first in new dating otherwise provides a contradictory background

It’s skeptical when the an associate wants money first in new dating otherwise provides a contradictory background

Women that record themselves for the directories and you may internet to become chose because of the guys to possess matchmaking are called latvian post purchase fiance wives. Just before fulfilling truly, group essentially discuss via email address, telephone, otherwise video skype.

The brand new girls is actually allegedly addressed like assets and you will transferred round the borders to possess monetary acquire, based on rivals off mail-order marriage ceremonies. The education was nevertheless enabled and you will controlled in the most North nations.

They really are.

The idea of a post-acquisition wife may seem out-of-date, it in reality goes. Global marriage companies are utilized from the both males and females so you’re able to find prospective true love overseas. The women range between rich center-classification girls looking a dad so you’re able to impoverished women who try fervently seeking to boost their lot in daily life. They are exposed to victimization and you may impoverishment once they enter the world. With respect to the Societal Notice Law Reporter, they also manage speech and you may imprisonment activities.

No matter if now you can become enamored into the idealism of one’s suggestion, alerting must be used. This new fame of Western mers normally victimize innocent guys. The way to protect yourself is to abstain from providing money so you’re able to feminine. They typically ask for currency purchasing resort rooms otherwise trip seats. You in the event the forget about these need since they’re hoaxes. Asking for money to simply help an unwell family relations otherwise relatives is the most prevalent post-buy matrimony con.

He’s deceitful.

A kind of relationship provider one organizes marriage ceremonies anywhere between guys and you will european female is known as fax shot brides. The process is just like matchmaking for the reason that the man will pay a charge to discover the woman’s updates and you can connectivity their thru current email address otherwise motion picture chat. The couple for this reason matches that can fulfill directly before making a decision to track down hitched.

Even though some other sites to possess send-purchase brides was legitimate, someone else try cons. Understand stories of your own web site to check out dubious members in order to avoid being cheated.

Particular send-acquisition wife other sites are nothing more fronts having person smuggling, in which women are coerced with the personal bondage or marketed with the prostitution myself. These sites make use of weakened and you will vulnerable women’s, apparently of development countries which have limited less costly options. Additionally, he or she is a type of ethnical colonialism one to has actually Asiatic ladies preconceptions alive.

They may not be a scam.

Dudes is thought ladies’ from around the whole world from legitimate agency regarding mail-order brides. These websites render various ways to get connected which have potential lovers, as well as portable calls, video chats, and emails. Additionally, they offer cover enjoys to safeguard against frauds and you will hoaxes. While you are unsure if the a website is actually legitimate, take a look at the evaluations and give they some real-globe testing.

The idea of an email-buy fiance s like ninety Time Bride-to-be, but it’s a get older-old custom having continuing for years and years. With pictures and a variety of discussion resources, establish mail order bride-to-be networks be like internet dating a great deal more.

Female regarding most of the personal classes is actually attracted to these sites, as well as center-classification ladies who faith you can find n’t adequate fits in their home countries and you may hopeless, impoverished women looking sanctuary out-of bitter products. Individuals, aside from social standing, are susceptible to psychological and you will physical discipline, and terms and Islandian naiset personals conditions barriers and you can concerns for imprisonment avoid them off leaving an enthusiastic abusive matrimony.

He could be safer.

Wives who shot flowers from the send-order are generally criticized to own engaging in animal trafficking. This is due to the point that he’s seem to offered to your a life you to definitely falls lacking the traditional and pressed towards the pressured connections that have partners coverage. Most of these girls is actually motivated by hunger and generally are seduced by West tastes and promise away from a much better residing new mass media.

However, there are even of many reliable other sites you to hook individuals to western european spouses. Multiple happier spouses have been sparked of the these websites. Men should be aware of the expense doing work in matchmaking a to another country feminine, even if. Travel fees while the cost of integrating a special family into their society try samples of these will cost you. These expenses will be very high. Simultaneously, it’s crucial to just remember that , only a few foreign ladies are exactly the same, therefore guys might be mindful when deciding on a partner. They ought to account for their attitude and you may selection, and also the countries and you may lives of its chose country.

இந்நூல் சுயமுன்னேற்ற நூல்களின் வரிசையில் பயனுள்ள, போற்றத்தக்க ஒரு புதுவரவு. பற்றாக்குறையோடு கூடிய அன்றாட வாழ்க்கையான இக்கரை வாழ்க்கையிலிருந்து சிறந்த, அபரிமிதமான அக்கரை வாழ்க்கைக்கு பயணிக்க ஒரு சிறந்த வழிக்காட்டி.

 வாழ்க்கையில் முன்னேற விழையும் எல்லோருடைய வெற்றிக்கும் இந்நூல் ஒரு திறவுகோலாக விளங்கும் என்பது திண்ணம்.
பல்வேறு பணிகளுக்கிடையே மக்களுக்கு, குறிப்பாக இளைஞர்களுக்கு மிகவும் அவசியமான இந்நூலை அழகான, எளிய தமிழ்நடையில் இயற்றி அளித்த ஆசிரியருக்கு பாராட்டுக்கள். அவர் பணி மேலும் சிறக்கட்டும்!

 

Dr.R.S.Raghavan
Dr.R.S.Raghavan

ஒரு நல்ல புத்தகத்தின் அடையாளம் படிக்கத் தொடங்கியவுடன் கீழே வைக்காமல் கடைசிப் பக்கம் வரை படிக்க வைப்பதே. தங்களது “இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?” என்ற புத்தகம் எனக்கு அந்த அனுபவத்தைத் தந்தது. இது மிகவும் அருமையான சுயமுன்னேற்ற வகை புத்தகம்.

தொழில் முறையில் ஆடிட்டராக உள்ள நீங்கள் அருமையாக ஆங்கிலத்தில் எழுத முடியுமென்றாலும், தமிழ் வாசகர்களுக்குப் புதிய சிந்தனைகளைத் தரவேண்டும் என்பதற்காகவே இந்த நூலைத் தமிழில் எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள். அதனால் தமிழ் வாசகர்களின் நன்றிக்குரியவராகிறீர்கள்.

ஒரு வாசகன் என்ற முறையில், உங்களுக்கு என் பாராட்டையும், நன்றியையும் தெரிவித்துக்கொள்கிறேன்.

Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti
Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti(Partner M/S. Nalli Chinnasami Chetty)

திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை தொழில் துறையில் தனக்கென ஓர் இடத்தைப்பெற்றவர். அவரது முயற்சியும் மனித பண்பாடும் அவரை வெற்றியின் உச்சத்தை அடைய உதவியது. முற்போக்கான சிந்தனை, முரண்பாடற்ற நோக்கம், எதிலும் யதார்த்தத்தையும் உண்மையையும் உணரக்கூடிய அறிவு இவைகள் இவரது அடிப்படை ஆற்றல்கள். 

அவரது 40 ஆண்டுகளுக்கும் மேற்பட்ட அனுபவங்களின் தெள்ளிய சாராம்சம்தான் இவரது படைப்பு ‘இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?’

சுவைபட எழுதியிருக்கிறார். அறிவுப்பூர்வமான புத்தகங்களின் நடுவில் இப்புத்தகம் தனித்து மிளிரும் என்பதில் எந்தவித ஐயமும் இல்லை. திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை அவர்களது இம்முயற்சி பாராட்டத்தக்கது. அவர்களுக்கு மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்!

Shri. V.V.Sundaram
Shri. V.V.Sundaram(Cleveland Thyagaraja Festival)