My one or two LTRs (you to wedding) and all my very meaningful dating been with sex to the first schedules

My one or two LTRs (you to wedding) and all my very meaningful dating been with sex to the first schedules

However panicked, I come avoiding him, unclear about if I wanted to store my 5 season unmarried streak supposed otherwise initiate relationship- and i was also worried about your family point, was he getting polite?

It simply suggests how deep all of our union was. So Eric is good one to greater part of dudes you can expect to proper care less when sex happens (too-long is more tricky than very first dates, IMO) when you are an entire-packed lady that wont prevent dudes out of getting you. I’ve ended up the period and you can once more.

I decided to big date a person (who’s within his 40’s I am within my 20’s). I earliest satisfied in the office( we ran towards the each other at a pub) , the guy pursued me personally for three months and i forgotten him. Captain reason why I forgotten your is that he told you he never ever desired to marry or have children. My personal offer is more than and i also decided to text message him, we went out into all of our date that is first. We’d eating, products and then we had sex – the new sex is incredible. Back at my shock the guy text me personally the moment I’d home another early morning. Next we had the second big date, We brought up what is My personal problem of your refusing for a family, in which he asserted that the guy mentioned that since the he had just met me, however, that he hadn’t came across someone who rocked his business into the 5 years. Slowly but surely We visited have the random phone calls and you will text message through the day just to say hey. Very he come to pull-back then i had way more puzzled and also the whole question turned into a mess. I stopped conversing with your, and then he do lamely “poke” myself into the Twitter or Fb talk to me personally, and i just ended up removing my profile. Today heta Polen-singlar it’s the following year, in which he text message myself three months before to ask if i wished to have dinner. I said yes, we developed a single day. Up to one to times he text the complete, “hello I am hoping you’re with a beneficial few days” procedure. Following, that month rolls around, and he’s not to-be heard out of! Per week tickets then texts myself ” Hey, what exactly took place?” I ignore him, day passes in which he text me “So can be i meeting or perhaps not?” We nonetheless skip your. However, contrary to popular belief, I love your. I am unable to shake your and it’s really become annually. I do not get as to the reasons he sets dates then the go out comes as much as right after which I do not hear an excellent peep of your? This was problematic this past year, the guy establishes day but do not phone calls to put the facts, thus i then feel like he does not proper care. I don’t know whether it guy just desires to keep hooking up with an excellent 20 one thing or if he would like things? I believe most doubtful you to today inside the 40’s the guy seems such as for example he has the second chance? And you can what exactly is with him perhaps not taking action? As to why contact me to ask me personally aside following expect us to follow-up? They aggravates me.

Therefore i came across he on a dating website and you can once a number of letters forward and backward i exchanged quantity therefore started messaging

he had been usually the one so you’re able to text me very first. we made a decision to go out one nights however, once the the guy resided kinda much and i also don’t push i wanted to bed at the their house (i’m sure this is probably my personal error) of course, if the guy chose me up we’d a good converstation i laughed and then he featured deep toward my sight. whenever we got back to help you his home i started cuddling and you can the next thing i know is the fact we had been that have sex. very intimate sex. it had been totally sizzling hot and that i appreciated all of the second from it. we should instead regarding got sex like 6 or 7 times while in the the evening and you can into the day. the following early morning he was on shower and so i took it upon myself and make his sleep and bend his laundry to possess your and he really apprectiated can i then showered and we also decided to go to rating supper (better the guy got something to consume we didnt as i wasnt hungry) he then required domestic. the problem is that have been actually and come up with agreements observe eachother to own sex. i dont notice that have a booty phone call however, i like this person and you will hes stunning in my vision and i also carry out fascination with one thing even more to recover from which “booty label” not we usually do not should become manipulative throughout the asking for a love and also your freak out and then the butt call is completed and over with…what can i actually do to store it butt telephone call happening however, at the same time just be sure to profit him more? or have always been i totally crazy convinced a relationship can happen anywhere between all of us due to the fact we you should never really know one thing about eachother. hell we cant even pronounce his last identity :/ very excite tell me the things i should do…it has been going on now for about two months…

இந்நூல் சுயமுன்னேற்ற நூல்களின் வரிசையில் பயனுள்ள, போற்றத்தக்க ஒரு புதுவரவு. பற்றாக்குறையோடு கூடிய அன்றாட வாழ்க்கையான இக்கரை வாழ்க்கையிலிருந்து சிறந்த, அபரிமிதமான அக்கரை வாழ்க்கைக்கு பயணிக்க ஒரு சிறந்த வழிக்காட்டி.

 வாழ்க்கையில் முன்னேற விழையும் எல்லோருடைய வெற்றிக்கும் இந்நூல் ஒரு திறவுகோலாக விளங்கும் என்பது திண்ணம்.
பல்வேறு பணிகளுக்கிடையே மக்களுக்கு, குறிப்பாக இளைஞர்களுக்கு மிகவும் அவசியமான இந்நூலை அழகான, எளிய தமிழ்நடையில் இயற்றி அளித்த ஆசிரியருக்கு பாராட்டுக்கள். அவர் பணி மேலும் சிறக்கட்டும்!

 

Dr.R.S.Raghavan
Dr.R.S.Raghavan

ஒரு நல்ல புத்தகத்தின் அடையாளம் படிக்கத் தொடங்கியவுடன் கீழே வைக்காமல் கடைசிப் பக்கம் வரை படிக்க வைப்பதே. தங்களது “இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?” என்ற புத்தகம் எனக்கு அந்த அனுபவத்தைத் தந்தது. இது மிகவும் அருமையான சுயமுன்னேற்ற வகை புத்தகம்.

தொழில் முறையில் ஆடிட்டராக உள்ள நீங்கள் அருமையாக ஆங்கிலத்தில் எழுத முடியுமென்றாலும், தமிழ் வாசகர்களுக்குப் புதிய சிந்தனைகளைத் தரவேண்டும் என்பதற்காகவே இந்த நூலைத் தமிழில் எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள். அதனால் தமிழ் வாசகர்களின் நன்றிக்குரியவராகிறீர்கள்.

ஒரு வாசகன் என்ற முறையில், உங்களுக்கு என் பாராட்டையும், நன்றியையும் தெரிவித்துக்கொள்கிறேன்.

Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti
Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti(Partner M/S. Nalli Chinnasami Chetty)

திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை தொழில் துறையில் தனக்கென ஓர் இடத்தைப்பெற்றவர். அவரது முயற்சியும் மனித பண்பாடும் அவரை வெற்றியின் உச்சத்தை அடைய உதவியது. முற்போக்கான சிந்தனை, முரண்பாடற்ற நோக்கம், எதிலும் யதார்த்தத்தையும் உண்மையையும் உணரக்கூடிய அறிவு இவைகள் இவரது அடிப்படை ஆற்றல்கள். 

அவரது 40 ஆண்டுகளுக்கும் மேற்பட்ட அனுபவங்களின் தெள்ளிய சாராம்சம்தான் இவரது படைப்பு ‘இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?’

சுவைபட எழுதியிருக்கிறார். அறிவுப்பூர்வமான புத்தகங்களின் நடுவில் இப்புத்தகம் தனித்து மிளிரும் என்பதில் எந்தவித ஐயமும் இல்லை. திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை அவர்களது இம்முயற்சி பாராட்டத்தக்கது. அவர்களுக்கு மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்!

Shri. V.V.Sundaram
Shri. V.V.Sundaram(Cleveland Thyagaraja Festival)