One aspect that caught our attention is the fact that within the growth of bisexuality…

One aspect that caught our attention is the fact that within the growth of bisexuality…

An essential part for the growth of the identity that is bisexual the psychological experiences that join the procedure. We find negative thoughts and emotions, such as for instance: anxiety, fear, frustration, inadequacy, vulnerability and regret, which are for this very first phases with this development because those would be the people which have a negative effect into the state that is emotional. The good feelings and emotions (liberation, commodity with yourself, relief and pride) are related with the final two stages when the acknowledgement and acceptance imply a bettering within the individual’s subjective wellbeing.

One aspect that caught our attention is the fact that within the growth of bisexuality those negative thoughts and feelings, reported regarding the very first stages, create an impact from the real, psychological and state that is psychological towards the undeniable fact that anyone must confront himself/herself with a number of social obstacles and interior confusions, such as for instance a consistent self-questioning (i.e. “why do I like both rather than one?”). A number of the individuals over the research manifested having skilled high degrees of stress, insecurity, inadequacy, anxiety, fear, frustration and despair that interfere using the sufficient span of their day-to-day everyday lives. As well as that, we think that the theoretical space that exists regarding bisexuality plays a role in the vexation based in the individuals since they are unable to find legitimate information that enlighten them from the span of growth of their identification.

Additionally, the negative connotations of bisexuality which are discovered socially within the typical language nourishes the prejudgments and stereotypes that influence the professional and ethical workout of psychologists.

Exactly the same misinformation reported throughout the phases will not make it possible to respond to why there is certainly an attraction towards two sexes/genders therefore the individual seeks assist in purchase to understand this because socially its stipulated that certain must like just one intercourse (which is chosen to such as the reverse), and though the bisexual person doesn’t appear to be trying to get rid of the system man/woman, therefore acknowledging a binarism, it really is in reality changing it because he or she seems interested in both sexes/genders and it is confident with it. Consequently, does the bisexual person is trying to over come the facets imposed by the tradition? When during the last phase one associated with the primary traits is in integrating both the inner and outside globes where the monosexual tradition remains current. Our reply to this is actually that when bisexuality is recognized and accepted within the individual it partially overcomes those facets developing a connection between monosexuality and polysexuality, because on one side the individual acknowledges an attraction towards two (guy and girl), breaking using the monosexuality habits; as well as on one other hand, that exact same attraction is limited to two, alienating from just exactly what characterizes the polysexuality.

Finally, in connection with restrictions for the research we could point out the down sides to get the test because many people didn’t permission and decided to be interviewed because of the scientists. We contacted around 14 individuals but we only received permission and agreement from 8. moreover, the purchase regarding the bibliographical product associated into the topic of research ended up being additionally hard to get particularly in spanish.

“A man’s heterosexuality will maybe not set up with any homosexuality, and the other way around.”

Sigmund Freud penned these words in the 1st 50 % of the century that is 20th. That he is often archaic, outdated, and bigoted as you’d expect, my initial reaction was similar to what contemporary criticism has found in Freud. Yet the vocals seemed eerily familiar, it had been perhaps perhaps not the imagined tones of the Austrian that is long-dead in clear-as-day contemporary English. Freud’s theorisation of bisexuality exemplifies lots of the prejudices we nevertheless hear today. Most of the time, it really is Freud himself whom provided rise and credence into the viewpoints which m.xxxstreams contaminate the means we think and discuss bisexuality. But this claim had been especially essential it performed biphobia with its many pernicious form through erasure. The clause will not retain the term ‘bisexuality’: it is a binary of ‘heterosexuality’ and ‘homosexuality’ which not merely denies the presence of the person that is bisexual but in addition denies them presence in language. This really is an event that most bisexual individuals face: become defined in negation, the ‘invisible zone’ between homo and hetero. This column show seeks to talk about bisexual identification and biphobia in its numerous types, but before it could do this, this has to explore ‘invisiBIlity’.

இந்நூல் சுயமுன்னேற்ற நூல்களின் வரிசையில் பயனுள்ள, போற்றத்தக்க ஒரு புதுவரவு. பற்றாக்குறையோடு கூடிய அன்றாட வாழ்க்கையான இக்கரை வாழ்க்கையிலிருந்து சிறந்த, அபரிமிதமான அக்கரை வாழ்க்கைக்கு பயணிக்க ஒரு சிறந்த வழிக்காட்டி.

 வாழ்க்கையில் முன்னேற விழையும் எல்லோருடைய வெற்றிக்கும் இந்நூல் ஒரு திறவுகோலாக விளங்கும் என்பது திண்ணம்.
பல்வேறு பணிகளுக்கிடையே மக்களுக்கு, குறிப்பாக இளைஞர்களுக்கு மிகவும் அவசியமான இந்நூலை அழகான, எளிய தமிழ்நடையில் இயற்றி அளித்த ஆசிரியருக்கு பாராட்டுக்கள். அவர் பணி மேலும் சிறக்கட்டும்!

 

Dr.R.S.Raghavan
Dr.R.S.Raghavan

ஒரு நல்ல புத்தகத்தின் அடையாளம் படிக்கத் தொடங்கியவுடன் கீழே வைக்காமல் கடைசிப் பக்கம் வரை படிக்க வைப்பதே. தங்களது “இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?” என்ற புத்தகம் எனக்கு அந்த அனுபவத்தைத் தந்தது. இது மிகவும் அருமையான சுயமுன்னேற்ற வகை புத்தகம்.

தொழில் முறையில் ஆடிட்டராக உள்ள நீங்கள் அருமையாக ஆங்கிலத்தில் எழுத முடியுமென்றாலும், தமிழ் வாசகர்களுக்குப் புதிய சிந்தனைகளைத் தரவேண்டும் என்பதற்காகவே இந்த நூலைத் தமிழில் எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள். அதனால் தமிழ் வாசகர்களின் நன்றிக்குரியவராகிறீர்கள்.

ஒரு வாசகன் என்ற முறையில், உங்களுக்கு என் பாராட்டையும், நன்றியையும் தெரிவித்துக்கொள்கிறேன்.

Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti
Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti(Partner M/S. Nalli Chinnasami Chetty)

திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை தொழில் துறையில் தனக்கென ஓர் இடத்தைப்பெற்றவர். அவரது முயற்சியும் மனித பண்பாடும் அவரை வெற்றியின் உச்சத்தை அடைய உதவியது. முற்போக்கான சிந்தனை, முரண்பாடற்ற நோக்கம், எதிலும் யதார்த்தத்தையும் உண்மையையும் உணரக்கூடிய அறிவு இவைகள் இவரது அடிப்படை ஆற்றல்கள். 

அவரது 40 ஆண்டுகளுக்கும் மேற்பட்ட அனுபவங்களின் தெள்ளிய சாராம்சம்தான் இவரது படைப்பு ‘இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?’

சுவைபட எழுதியிருக்கிறார். அறிவுப்பூர்வமான புத்தகங்களின் நடுவில் இப்புத்தகம் தனித்து மிளிரும் என்பதில் எந்தவித ஐயமும் இல்லை. திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை அவர்களது இம்முயற்சி பாராட்டத்தக்கது. அவர்களுக்கு மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்!

Shri. V.V.Sundaram
Shri. V.V.Sundaram(Cleveland Thyagaraja Festival)