Perhaps one of the most faq’s we obtain expected in the LearningtoFindLove is if internet dating is a viable choice

Perhaps one of the most faq’s we obtain expected in the LearningtoFindLove is if internet dating is a viable choice

Alina Frank

Toward era recently from the You.S. from Facebook’s the newest matchmaking app, I decided to include my personal opinion regarding chance and demands this might provide social media profiles. Facebook Relationships has started in Argentina, Bolivia, Brazil, Canada, Chile, Colombia, Ecuador, Guyana, Laos, Malaysia, Mexico, Paraguay, Peru, the brand new Philippines, Singapore, Surinam, Thailand, Uruguay, and you can Vietnam since the last year. Facebook pages during the Europe would have to wait until 2020 so you can obtain availableness. In advance of I get on advantages and disadvantages why don’t we talk about exactly what Facebook Relationships is and exactly how they is different from applications particularly Tinder, Match, otherwise Grinder.

Facebook Relationships is not really an alternative application however, a software into the Twitter system- it can fundamentally become a case you have access to from the head Myspace membership. In the last while Fb has actually all the more integrated their super-well-known platform that have Instagram which they individual. Facebook Relationship will soon be element of Instagram so as that stories and you will photos should be added to each other at the same time. One of the primary variations is the fact Facebook has actually will it be possess various study on you currently, unlike relationships software that don’t. They use your location and you will welfare within coordinating algorithm. You can love to get relationships reputation available for watching by the present Nearest and dearest utilizing the matchmaking application or you can end your buddies off seeing it. Other cool ability is a thing entitled Secret Smash which enables you to grab to help you nine anyone whenever among those crushes implies that he has a secret crush you, Myspace will let you know both. Among the many safety measures allows you to alert Family members in which and in case you’re going to be on a date however, if one thing wade incorrect.

Facebook Matchmaking

So far so good, correct? Really yes, prior to you diving into the using it I’m going to invite one believe some things first. Most of the dating applications are exactly the same where the first struck on a potential mate are as a result of the thing i will name biochemistry, “Would I like the way in which this individual looks?” On the LearningtoFindLove movement i telephone call which best into the Hollywood Brand of interested in somebody and you may sadly it’s one/step three of your picture for a long-title profitable pleased relationship. It’s not that chemistry is not essential (it certainly was) however it should be checked out just shortly after other variables is actually felt. The following element of researching a potential romantic partner throughout these on line dating applications is because of mutual focus such as for example your both affect such as for instance golf. Inside LearningtoFindLove we call so it compatibility facts. Check out the cheerfully (joyfully ‘s the medical phrase right here) married people you understand really. He or she is likely to be those who may well not display prominent passions anyway hence enjoys absolutely nothing affect just how much happiness they supply each other. In the event the my hubby loves to play golf and you may hates knitting but I detest tennis and like knitting, following we would things separate and you can aside from the matchmaking. I promise you so it doesn’t alter just how personal the audience is.

Again, being compatible products plays a role in our very own options procedure but it is an amount reduced portion of the method than simply biochemistry. If biochemistry and being compatible were really the only an approach to look for a keen best companion for lifetime then your divorce proceedings prices off those people meeting using internet connections could well be much better than the fresh divorce case costs off partners that have satisfied various other ways- the new unfortunate fact is the it’s likely that the same! The 2 determiners within our unique program which are missed from the relationship other sites pertain to how good you’re managed by your potential romantic partner as well as the behaviors which might be innately to her or him. If i likes and you may regard a conduct, for example kindness, then i will end up lower than fulfilled being with a great cheapskate. If i finish compromising for a good cheapskate, then over the years I am able to likely try to changes him otherwise resent your or be unfulfilled in some way. Nearly just like the crappy would be the fact he will believe he isn’t sufficient in my situation and he was correct.

Among has actually during the Twitter Relationship with the potential of being good tool having partner solutions is exactly what it label Icebreaker Inquiries. Which part of the Relationships app makes it possible to ask concerns such as, “Precisely what does your ideal big date feel like?” Whenever armed with a highly-discussed directory of behavior you to definitely round out the method i have fun with from inside the LearningtoFindLove then answers a potential romantic partner will bring towards the Icebreaker Concerns can tell you whether they was also really worth bothering to help you go on a coffees date with. Our very own program graduates purchased equivalent plans to your online dating app profiles as the a self-looking strategy to help them in advance of it find yourself into the an excellent crappy day.

So for people to put it briefly, the potential can there be getting Facebook’s the new Matchmaking function to help you unearth your dream partner. Simply do it with attention available please remember is most discerning when it comes time so you’re able to investing a date.

இந்நூல் சுயமுன்னேற்ற நூல்களின் வரிசையில் பயனுள்ள, போற்றத்தக்க ஒரு புதுவரவு. பற்றாக்குறையோடு கூடிய அன்றாட வாழ்க்கையான இக்கரை வாழ்க்கையிலிருந்து சிறந்த, அபரிமிதமான அக்கரை வாழ்க்கைக்கு பயணிக்க ஒரு சிறந்த வழிக்காட்டி.

 வாழ்க்கையில் முன்னேற விழையும் எல்லோருடைய வெற்றிக்கும் இந்நூல் ஒரு திறவுகோலாக விளங்கும் என்பது திண்ணம்.
பல்வேறு பணிகளுக்கிடையே மக்களுக்கு, குறிப்பாக இளைஞர்களுக்கு மிகவும் அவசியமான இந்நூலை அழகான, எளிய தமிழ்நடையில் இயற்றி அளித்த ஆசிரியருக்கு பாராட்டுக்கள். அவர் பணி மேலும் சிறக்கட்டும்!

 

Dr.R.S.Raghavan
Dr.R.S.Raghavan

ஒரு நல்ல புத்தகத்தின் அடையாளம் படிக்கத் தொடங்கியவுடன் கீழே வைக்காமல் கடைசிப் பக்கம் வரை படிக்க வைப்பதே. தங்களது “இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?” என்ற புத்தகம் எனக்கு அந்த அனுபவத்தைத் தந்தது. இது மிகவும் அருமையான சுயமுன்னேற்ற வகை புத்தகம்.

தொழில் முறையில் ஆடிட்டராக உள்ள நீங்கள் அருமையாக ஆங்கிலத்தில் எழுத முடியுமென்றாலும், தமிழ் வாசகர்களுக்குப் புதிய சிந்தனைகளைத் தரவேண்டும் என்பதற்காகவே இந்த நூலைத் தமிழில் எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள். அதனால் தமிழ் வாசகர்களின் நன்றிக்குரியவராகிறீர்கள்.

ஒரு வாசகன் என்ற முறையில், உங்களுக்கு என் பாராட்டையும், நன்றியையும் தெரிவித்துக்கொள்கிறேன்.

Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti
Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti(Partner M/S. Nalli Chinnasami Chetty)

திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை தொழில் துறையில் தனக்கென ஓர் இடத்தைப்பெற்றவர். அவரது முயற்சியும் மனித பண்பாடும் அவரை வெற்றியின் உச்சத்தை அடைய உதவியது. முற்போக்கான சிந்தனை, முரண்பாடற்ற நோக்கம், எதிலும் யதார்த்தத்தையும் உண்மையையும் உணரக்கூடிய அறிவு இவைகள் இவரது அடிப்படை ஆற்றல்கள். 

அவரது 40 ஆண்டுகளுக்கும் மேற்பட்ட அனுபவங்களின் தெள்ளிய சாராம்சம்தான் இவரது படைப்பு ‘இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?’

சுவைபட எழுதியிருக்கிறார். அறிவுப்பூர்வமான புத்தகங்களின் நடுவில் இப்புத்தகம் தனித்து மிளிரும் என்பதில் எந்தவித ஐயமும் இல்லை. திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை அவர்களது இம்முயற்சி பாராட்டத்தக்கது. அவர்களுக்கு மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்!

Shri. V.V.Sundaram
Shri. V.V.Sundaram(Cleveland Thyagaraja Festival)