The fresh corollary would be the fact over fifty percent of all of the transsexual women don’t pass effortlessly, particular getting realize instantly

The fresh corollary would be the fact over fifty percent of all of the transsexual women don’t pass effortlessly, particular getting realize instantly

The brand new corollary is that they plus find on their own entering into a loyal experience of a guy, which have even relationships is possible

  • Nipple augmentation
  • Small face feminisation, e.grams. rhinoplasty
  • Sex confirmation functions
  • Major facial feminisation surgery
  • Vocal feminisation functions
  • Revolutionary skeletal businesses, age.g. rib reduction and limb shortening

But it’s still difficult to improve a person’s feet, or hands size – plus an extremely quite and petit girl of several be completely distributed of the additional factors such as for instance masculine sound. It is extremely worth noting right here one particular really networked transsexual feminine say that he has never fulfilled a special transsexual lady just who they didn’t quickly “out” as such for them, this is a severe and you may alternatively self-selective analogy but it does tell you just how difficult entirely convincing passing (and thus stealth) are going to be.

One transwoman certainly planning on supposed stealth should be savagely sensible regarding the her passability. She can start by inquiring her family and friends is completely sincere about how exactly better she passes – although solutions can get specific prejudice. Whenever passageway in public she will likely be aware for your odd looks, signs and symptoms of puzzlement, sly glances, otherwise whispering. A great latest try try working region-day just like the a woman for most weeks during the a community convenience store, most are always desperate for team.

The fresh minimal available proof implies that about 50% away from blog post-SRS women boast of being in a position to violation, nevertheless the real count try dramatically reduced, especially in the brand new proceeded, long-identity, 7×24 perspective necessary for covert. All of these feminine accept the situation and work out the best from it, however some feel surely depressed, perhaps even self-destructive, once they realise that they neglect to solution – often immediately after thorough and permanent operations. Other transwoman decline to face circumstances and remain deluded about their power to pass – both for the the amount that https://brightwomen.net/da/varme-asiatiske-kvinder/ may feel hazardous. Far more surely, age on the hormones, more businesses (such as for instance FFS) and you may feel often circulate some transwomen across the range of “are unable to ticket” so you can “can be ticket”.

Circumstantial research shows that most transsexual women that can be pass have a tendency to in the course of time go covert with the aim to be “assimilated” to the community given that definitely a female

That declaration calculated one inside the 2001 great britain got regarding the 5000 publicly transsexual post-SRS female as well as another type of 3000 (we.elizabeth. 38% of the neighborhood) residing in covert. But not, the latest covert commission looks highest, anecdotal facts suggests that possibly merely 10-20% away from western transsexual women ever before reach the phase where they are able to violation convincingly and you will constantly because the a woman more years – having a quite strong prejudice towards the latest apparently couples (at the very least inside European countries) ladies who change when more youthful.

Transsexual feminine having a great heterosexual orientation (i.age. sexually drawn mainly so you can dudes) often tend on the covert if they can citation sufficiently.

The fresh stealthy transwoman is soon trying stroll an excellent range anywhere between sincerity and you may deceit. For example – whenever is always to she revision their unique partner of their particular past records once the a male? A few women keep the view that other spouse you want not advised; a more impressive matter keep that a partner should be told abreast of first appointment, whenever you are probably a majority accept that somebody need-be advised only if the partnership gets serious, i.elizabeth., in the event the “L term” (“love”) was uttered – for the caveat that if the transwoman sensory faculties the fresh companion tend to behave very adversely or violently, the relationship will be busted out of and no disclosure.

A love that have a person is likely to eliminate the fresh new transwoman aside of one unlock acknowledgement from their unique transsexuality and you will male earlier, if only because the personal stigma connects to help you a so-called heterosexual man immediately after it will become known you to definitely their girlfriend otherwise wife used to be a masculine. Of numerous passable transsexual women therefore cover up its earlier away from lovers and you may even its husband, feeling (unfortuitously often truthfully) your relationship may well not endure which to be identified. You to investigation (Srensen, 1981a) unearthed that ten off 17 transwomen claimed having been in a position to keep the SRS a key out-of male couples, whenever you are a new shown a possibly even more plausible ratio out of thirteen out regarding 42.

இந்நூல் சுயமுன்னேற்ற நூல்களின் வரிசையில் பயனுள்ள, போற்றத்தக்க ஒரு புதுவரவு. பற்றாக்குறையோடு கூடிய அன்றாட வாழ்க்கையான இக்கரை வாழ்க்கையிலிருந்து சிறந்த, அபரிமிதமான அக்கரை வாழ்க்கைக்கு பயணிக்க ஒரு சிறந்த வழிக்காட்டி.

 வாழ்க்கையில் முன்னேற விழையும் எல்லோருடைய வெற்றிக்கும் இந்நூல் ஒரு திறவுகோலாக விளங்கும் என்பது திண்ணம்.
பல்வேறு பணிகளுக்கிடையே மக்களுக்கு, குறிப்பாக இளைஞர்களுக்கு மிகவும் அவசியமான இந்நூலை அழகான, எளிய தமிழ்நடையில் இயற்றி அளித்த ஆசிரியருக்கு பாராட்டுக்கள். அவர் பணி மேலும் சிறக்கட்டும்!

 

Dr.R.S.Raghavan
Dr.R.S.Raghavan

ஒரு நல்ல புத்தகத்தின் அடையாளம் படிக்கத் தொடங்கியவுடன் கீழே வைக்காமல் கடைசிப் பக்கம் வரை படிக்க வைப்பதே. தங்களது “இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?” என்ற புத்தகம் எனக்கு அந்த அனுபவத்தைத் தந்தது. இது மிகவும் அருமையான சுயமுன்னேற்ற வகை புத்தகம்.

தொழில் முறையில் ஆடிட்டராக உள்ள நீங்கள் அருமையாக ஆங்கிலத்தில் எழுத முடியுமென்றாலும், தமிழ் வாசகர்களுக்குப் புதிய சிந்தனைகளைத் தரவேண்டும் என்பதற்காகவே இந்த நூலைத் தமிழில் எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள். அதனால் தமிழ் வாசகர்களின் நன்றிக்குரியவராகிறீர்கள்.

ஒரு வாசகன் என்ற முறையில், உங்களுக்கு என் பாராட்டையும், நன்றியையும் தெரிவித்துக்கொள்கிறேன்.

Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti
Padmashri. Dr. Nalli Kuppuswami Chetti(Partner M/S. Nalli Chinnasami Chetty)

திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை தொழில் துறையில் தனக்கென ஓர் இடத்தைப்பெற்றவர். அவரது முயற்சியும் மனித பண்பாடும் அவரை வெற்றியின் உச்சத்தை அடைய உதவியது. முற்போக்கான சிந்தனை, முரண்பாடற்ற நோக்கம், எதிலும் யதார்த்தத்தையும் உண்மையையும் உணரக்கூடிய அறிவு இவைகள் இவரது அடிப்படை ஆற்றல்கள். 

அவரது 40 ஆண்டுகளுக்கும் மேற்பட்ட அனுபவங்களின் தெள்ளிய சாராம்சம்தான் இவரது படைப்பு ‘இக்கரையா? அக்கரையா?’

சுவைபட எழுதியிருக்கிறார். அறிவுப்பூர்வமான புத்தகங்களின் நடுவில் இப்புத்தகம் தனித்து மிளிரும் என்பதில் எந்தவித ஐயமும் இல்லை. திரு.ஈ.பி.திருமலை அவர்களது இம்முயற்சி பாராட்டத்தக்கது. அவர்களுக்கு மனப்பூர்வமான வாழ்த்துக்கள்!

Shri. V.V.Sundaram
Shri. V.V.Sundaram(Cleveland Thyagaraja Festival)